Friday, October 5, 2012

Shabana Abbassi - a role model for our community

We don't normally highlight the role of individuals, only news, events and issues.

However,I would like to make an exception to mark the passing of a remarkable human being, who
touched the lives of the children, parents, teachers and governors of  Oliver Goldsmith primary school as well as those of her own family and community.

Shabana died recently of pancreatic cancer at the oh so young age of 37, after a long illness. A memorial service was held at the school on Friday 5th October which I attended along with
many parents, teachers and governors. As is the custom at such events, there were prayers and many heart-felt tributes but one by her friend Rehana captured her spirit and contribution to the school.

She recalled that Shabana had stormed into Olly Golly with her three children a few years ago and quickly stamped her bubbly personality on all she came in contact with. She brought together mums from all religions and countries and gave them confidence and a voice. Naturally, she was soon expected to stand as a parent governor and Rehana recalled her wonderful way of chivvying her and other parents to vote to improve the school.

I can confirm that as a governor Shabana was a revelation - active in everything, social (her cooking was legendary) as well as educational. But it was her sharp and persistent contributions to governors' debates which I recall best. Once roused, she would not let go but pressed her (usually valid) case in a polite but forceful way. She got support and changed the way we do things.

Had she been spared, I have no doubt that in time she would have made a great councillor or perhaps more. But what a wonderful role model for young (not just Muslim) girls and women in our society.
Our deepest sympathy must go to her husband and three young children, but they should know that they and this community have been enriched by Shabana's wonderful personality and work.

Cllr Jim Moher

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